The hidden cost of headstone hunting

I enjoy headstone hunting for several reasons:

  • It is a bit of a treasure hunt – I always feel great when I find an old headstone marking an ancestor’s gravesite.
  • It is esthetically pleasing – most of the old cemeteries are quite scenic.
  • It is free.

Well, almost free. As I discovered a couple of weeks ago, there is a hidden cost to headstone hunting.

On a sunny day I wear my sunglasses which are just clip-ons for my prescription glasses.  When I need to look closely at a headstone I take them off and hang them in the collar of my shirt.  They are pretty secure there and if for some reason they slip out, I feel and/or hear them fall.

So I spent about 90 minutes at the Highland Cemetery in Ipswich recently. And while the day was sunny the cemetery was mostly shaded.  I took my glasses off at the start and didn’t put them on until I had finished walking the cemetery, which covered over an acre.  Or, more to the point, I tried to put them on but they weren’t there.  I had lost my glasses somewhere in the acre of headstones.

I spent an additional 30 minutes retracing my route, carefully scanning the grass. Nothing.

The cost of replacing the glasses: about $400.

I will henceforth leave the glasses in the truck and use cheap non-prescription sunglasses if it is sunny.

Some lessons are learned the hard way.

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Finding the Oldfields Cemetery

Oldfields cemetery

Oldfields cemetery

I tried to find the Oldfields Cemetery in South Berwick ME on Friday. I did find it, but the “adventure” I had in locating it was a cautionary tale on the use of GPS.

My first thought was to simply Google it. Yes, Google knew of its existence (though there was some dispute over whether it was “Oldfields” or “Old Fields”) and graciously offered a map showing its location, plus a route to get there. I got in my truck, map in hand, and set the GPS. It, too, knew of its existence and offered a route to it. So off I went.

The problem arose when I got to Brattle St in South Berwick. Both the GPS and Google Maps treated the long driveway leading to the private home at 21 Brattle St as a piece of the public way. Well, I hope the people who lived there didn’t mind me using their driveway to turn around. Lesson: the GPS can be wrong. I have learned this lesson before, but apparently need a refresher lesson from time to time.

So I wandered around the neighborhood for a while, assuming that it must be nearby (similar to what I did in Beverly last week – which I now think was a mistake). Failing to find it through visual means, I parked and thought about it for a minute. I recalled that findagrave.com offers GPS coordinates for most cemeteries. I looked up the cemetery on my phone, then figured out how to enter the coordinates on my GPS (a first for me). The GPS calculated a route and told me that the cemetery was about a half mile away. As I was already about a half mile from where the GPS first said I would find the cemetery (and in the opposite direction), the net error was about a mile.

The coordinates are (43.21721, -70.80926) if you want to find it for yourself.

The cemetery was actually about a tenth of a mile down a narrow road that ended at a brook where the bridge was out. Vine Road – not Brattle St. I could find it again now, but I probably won’t be going back.

It is actually a pretty spooky old cemetery. Not in great shape – lots of broken headstones and long grass. And I found only one of the 7 headstones of Jett’s ancestors who are reportedly buried there (Eunice Curtis Cutts, a 5th great-grandmother) . But I felt a sense of accomplishment anyway.

Somewhat unexpected was a memorial stone at the entrance paying tribute to William Chadbourne, one of Jett’s 9th great-grandfathers.

Chadbourne memorial

Chadbourne memorial

Eunice Cutts headstone

Eunice Cutts headstone

Weird tree

Weird tree

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NET Hop 4: Bridgewater NH to Wells ME

NET Hop 4

NET Hop 4

84 miles via NH 3A, NH 104, NH 106, NH 11, NH 108, NH 236, ME 9 and ME 109. Cumulative tow miles: 315. Truck miles: 117. Cumulative truck miles: 1604.

On paper this should have been a quick, easy trip. Google said it would take 2 hours and the roads, while secondary, were well-traveled state routes.

First problem: one thing you can absolutely take to the bank is that secondary roads, in New Hampshire, in June, will be pretty broken up due to the winter frost heaves. That was the case for most of this route. The 10 miles on NH 11 northwest of Alton Bay were particularly nasty. That road produced a tossed salad in our refrigerator’s vegetable bin.

Second problem: the route picked by Google was almost identical in time to two other wildly different routes. There was no dominant route. When we set the destination in the GPS it violently disagreed with Google on how best to get there. Navigating by map is much more difficult than navigating by GPS. I tried. I endured the countless recriminating “recalculating” notices but even after 15 miles down the Google route the GPS disagreed. I eventually missed a turn, gave up on the map and followed the GPS. It matched about 80% of my expected route but inexplicably took me through the heart of Rochester, one of the larger cities in NH, when it seemed that a shorter route would have avoided it. Bottom line: the route I traveled was about 6 miles and 25 minutes longer than the route I intended to take.

Despite all that, it was a fairly pleasant ride with nice scenery much of the way. And it was a beautiful June day – low 70s, puffy clouds dotting the sky. Better than a day in the office.

Our site

Our site

Our home for the 3-day Escapees Chapter 3 rally was the Newfound RV Park in Bridgewater NH. This park is quite small – only about 50 sites. But most are pull-thrus and each has a picnic table and a fire ring. There is some shade, a dog park, a small playground and a short walk through the woods along a babbling brook. It also has a small recreation center with a pool table, a ping-pong table and a give-and-take library. No pool, but Newfound Lake is nearby.

The pull-thru sites are short. We had to park the truck across the front of the RV. But it was adequate.

The most surprising thing about the park was the cable TV. You had to get a decoder box from the office and attach it to one TV. Some people couldn’t do it, either because their RV television connectors were not accessible or because they were technically challenged. We got ours attached and were surprised to find that we had over 70 channels, most being digital and crystal clear. And there was an on-screen program directory and program information. It was, for three days, like having a satellite dish. Jett was in TV heaven.

Even more surprising was that I was handed the box with the cable gear with no deposit required. Those boxes can’t be cheap, but the office didn’t even ask which site I was on.

Trust. You don’t get that very often on the road.

Musical entertainment

Musical entertainment

The rally was a lot of fun. It was low-key and smaller than we expected – just 8 rigs. There was a breakfast each morning and a pot-luck supper the second night which featured pork roast and slow-cooked chicken pot pie (without the crust, of course). As pot-luck dinners go, this one was near the top.

Frankly, the best thing about the rally was the people, which is a tribute to the quality of the people who are brave enough to RV in the northeast. I heard many interesting stories and got quite a few recommendations on places to visit on our trip west this fall. We even got some free musical entertainment from two very accomplished guitarists/singers.

Two more things that made this hop a pleasure: doing laundry at the Wizards of Wash laundromat and having pizza at Pat’s Pizza, both in Bristol NH. The laundromat wasn’t fancy but the machines were great, the staff was friendly and helpful and, best of all from my perspective, there was a community 1000-piece jigsaw puzzle. I put 24 pieces in place and before I knew it the laundry was dry and ready to be folded. We went to Pat’s afterward, on the recommendation of the laundromat staff. I had calzone and Jett had pizza. Jett’s assessment: “best pizza crust EVER.” And we hit the happy hour window so I had two beers for the price of one. That is what I call a perfect laundromat date night.

Meeting/game room

Meeting/game room

Pat's pizza and calzone

Pat’s pizza and calzone

Not-very-full park

Not-very-full park

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NET Hop 3: Salisbury MA to Bridgewater NH

NET Hop 3

NET Hop 3

102 miles via US 1, NH 101, I-93.HN 104 and NH 3A. Cumulative tow miles: 231. Truck miles: 368. Cumulative truck miles: 1487.

This was an easy hop that took just under 2 hours. The most difficult part was US 1 which we took simply to avoid the toll (and the traffic) on I-95 entering NH. But there was a lot of construction on US 1 which made for some tight lanes in a couple of places. But we didn’t hit anything.

The other difficult section was on I-93 north of the I-89 intersection. The road was fine, but we ran into an intense thunderstorm. We had to cut our speed to 50 mph and watch very carefully for traffic slowing in front of us. It was about 20 minutes of white-knuckle driving.

Our home for 10 days in Salisbury MA was the Beach Rose RV Park. We were given the one-and-only pull-through (out of about 50 sites), which was great – it gave us a picnic area without a neighbor and certainly eased the job of getting in and getting out again. The park was adequate for our purposes. It had 2 dog parks, which Rusty enjoyed. The pool was nice but, as usual, we didn’t use it. There was a basic laundry which we also didn’t use. Mostly we used the park as a base of operations to visit places on the North Shore of MA – mostly cemeteries but also beaches (Salisbury Beach and Hampton Beach) – and to visit with family. Jett’s siblings came by on our final Saturday and we broke out the tequila which we have carried with us for years and have never touched. A bunch of seniors sitting around, doing tequila shots. A sight to behold.

Then we went out to dinner at the Black Cow in Newburyport. An excellent dinner in a nice restaurant right on the water. Very nice.

Pool

Pool

Laundry

Laundry

Sybil and Rusty

Sybil and Rusty

Large dog park

Large dog park

Newburyport is a very scenic small town. Very colonial, of course, but it has managed to retain its colonial character better than most. The downtown area is thriving and is filled with interesting small businesses. There is a great toy store and some wonderful, aromatic bakeries. If you are in the area, definitely stop by.

Newburyport

Newburyport

Park

Park

Our site

Our site

Waterfront park

Waterfront park

Newburyport wharf

Newburyport wharf

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Salisbury Beach State Reservation

The beach

The beach

I had an hour to kill yesterday while Jett was napping, so I decided to run down to the Salisbury Beach State Reservation – just a half-mile away – to take a peek. The place was packed over the weekend with traffic backed up a half mile trying to get into the parking lot, so I was wondering what the attraction was. I assumed it was a beach and not much else.

The campground

The campground

Well, it is certainly a beach – a very nice, sandy beach – but it is also a huge campground. 438 sites, mostly for RVs but some tent-only sites, too. They are all water/electric (no sewer), but the park has a huge 4-lane dump station for emptying your tanks as you leave. The summer rates for an RV site are under $35 a day, making it very affordable (most private RV parks in Massachusetts charge over $50 per day) and it is very close to the beach. An easy walk. The problem, for us, is that there is a 40-foot limit on the RV length (we are 42) and there is a 14-day limit on the number of days you use the campground during the summer season. But for people who want a very nice campground for a short stay near the beach in MA, this is a great option.

The other problem for us, as seniors, is that the $10 annual senior pass for day use is limited to MA residents. Ah, finally a downside to being FL residents.

Since the reservation is very near “downtown” Salisbury Beach – a small honkytonk beach town – I dropped by there for a few minutes, too. I was surprised to see a bunch of remote TV station vans set up and broadcasting. As it was after 5pm it was obvious that they were doing live segments from Salisbury Beach. I wondered what the story was. Well, it turns out that the body of a fisherman who had gone missing a few days before washed up on the beach that afternoon. Must have been an unpleasant surprise for the families and the small children who were trying to get a break from the 94-degree heat.

TV trucks

TV trucks

Downtown Salisbury Beach

Downtown Salisbury Beach

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NET Hop 2: Foxboro MA to Salisbury MA

NET Hop 2

NET Hop 2

91 miles via US-1, I-495 (around Boston), US-1 (again) and US-1A. Cumulative tow miles: 129. Truck miles: 245. Cumulative truck miles: 1119.

This was an easy, short hop with all but about 10 miles being on I-495. The weather was good and the traffic was moderate. A piece of cake.

Jett followed in the Yaris, going via I-95 instead of I-495, thereby cutting a few miles off of her trip. But the travel time was similar.

Our home for the past 11 days was the Normandy Farms Family Campground in Foxboro (or Foxborough, if you prefer) MA, just a few miles south of Gillette Stadium, home field of the NFL CHAMPION New England Patriots. The Patriots started their conditioning workouts while we were there and I guess we could have gone there and watched some millionaires doing jumping jacks, but we passed.

At the present time the Normandy Farms website claims that the Travel Channel has included them in a list of the 13 best campgrounds in the world. We can’t dispute that as it is in our personal list of the top 2 campgrounds we have stayed at in our 4 years of travel (the other being Gulf Waters). Adjectives that come to mind when describing this place are “superb”, “clean”, “professionally-run” and “exceptional.” Oh, yeah… “expensive.” It ain’t cheap, folks. But you get your money’s worth.

First, the facilities. Our site was large enough for our rig and our two vehicles, with enough space left over to fit in our outdoor carpet, our grill and about 6 visitor vehicles. And the sites are staggered so that I could keep the shades up on both side-facing rear windows and see nothing but trees. Also, a huge recreation center featuring an indoor pool, an adults-only loft, an exercise room and an arcade. Three more outdoor pools. At least two playgrounds, a basketball court, a beach volleyball court, some first-rate bocce courts, the best outdoor horseshoe pits that I have ever seen, a softball field, a baseball field (where the staff set up soccer nets), shuffleboard courts, pickleball courts (still under construction), a huge dog park (over an acre, with a dog washing station), a fishing pond, a great campground store and, most surprisingly, a first-rate disc golf course and a BMX bike track.

Second, the staff. I don’t know who trains these people but they are doing a great job. Despite most of the office staff being young, they were courteous, pleasant, efficient and very professional. No attitude or gum-chewing here.

The only negative thing about our stay at Normandy Farms was the weather. Simply horrible. Most days were cold and wet. We spent at least 4 of the 11 days hunkered down in the RV, with the heat on and the rain beating on the roof. But we did have a few light-rain days (I am not sure that any were completely dry) so I was able to get out to three cemeteries. And Jett’s sisters came to visit and we had some rousing card games. So it wasn’t a washout by any means. But it sure could have been better.

There is also a small but very nice slots-only Plainridge Park Casino about 5 miles away where I was able, against all odds (literally) to win money. Jett lost, though, so it was pretty much a wash.

Our site

Our site

Dog park

Dog park

Outdoor pool at dusk

Outdoor pool at dusk

Indoor pool

Indoor pool

Adult loft

Adult loft

BMX bike track

BMX track

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Big Papi sighting

Big Papi

Big Papi

On Wednesday, when the skies started to clear, I traveled to Wayland MA with the hope of participating in a pick-up game with other senior softball players – a weekly event of the Eastern Massachusetts Senior Softball League (EMASS). Well, not enough players showed up for a game, so I just got to take some swings and loosen my arm.  But there was some strange activity at the park – a film crew of 20 or more people, all gearing up to do something – I had no idea what. Then, suddenly, who should walk onto the field but David Ortiz – “Big Papi” – the most storied Red Sox baseball play of the past decade. Apparently he – and the crew – were there to film a commercial with the topic being “things Big Papi wants to do in retirement.” One of those things, apparently, is playing senior softball.

I found out later that Big Papi had surprised the ongoing league game (in the background in the photo) by walking onto the field and asking if he could take a few swings.  So the game stopped and Fred – an octogenarian pitcher for one of the teams – fed him some meatballs that he absolutely crushed.  I am told that one landed more than 400 feet away, near the backstop of the other field.

If Big Papi is going to play senior softball (it will be a few years from now as you have to be 55 to join), then I want him on my team.

Walking onto the field

Walking onto the field

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The beat(ing) goes on…

More rain. More gloom. More chill.  With blustery wind today. Miserable, miserable weather. The forecasters say it will be nicer this weekend. But they may just be saying that to prevent mass suicide.

50 degrees at 1pm on June 6th. Sheesh.

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Booked through Labor Day

I made our final summer campground reservation yesterday, so we now have a complete, confirmed itinerary through Labor Day:

  • Now – Jun 9: Foxboro (or Foxborough, take your pick) MA
  • Jun 9 – Jun 19: Salisbury MA (Cape Ann)
  • Jun 19 – Jun 22: Bridgewater NH (Escapees rally at Newfound Lake)
  • Jun 22 – Jun 30: Wells ME (near the beach)
  • Jun 30 – Jul 9: Northwood NH (and Lucas Pond)
  • Jul 9 – Jul 18: Littleton MA
  • Jul 18 – Aug 1: Oakham MA
  • Aug 1 – Aug 7: Glenville NY (near Albany)
  • Aug 7 – Aug 9: Clayton NY (1000 Islands area)
  • Aug 9 – Aug 12: Grand Island NY (Niagara Falls)
  • Aug 12 – Aug 14: Streetsboro OH
  • Aug 14 – Aug 18: New Hudson MI (near Detroit)
  • Aug 18 – Aug 20: Michigan City IN (near the Indiana dunes)
  • Aug 20 – Aug 29: Madison WI (50th high school reunion)
  • Aug 29 – Aug 30: Rochester MN
  • Aug 30 – Aug 31: Spirit Lake IA
  • Aug 31 – Sep 1: Mitchell SD (Corn Palace)
  • Sep 1 – Sep 4: Interior SD (Badlands)

Whew! That is a boatload of hops. Lots of setup/teardown. But we get 7 new states for our map: OH, MI, IN, WI, MN, IA and SD which will boost our total to 39. And we get to see (among other things), the Thousand Islands area of NY, Niagara Falls, the Indiana Dunes National Lakeshore, the Corn Palace and the Badlands.  We will also have fun in my childhood home town, Madison, and at the rally at Newfound Lake in NH, for sure.

Should be a nice RV summer.

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NET Hop 1: Plymouth MA to Foxboro MA

NET Hop 1

NET Hop 1

38 miles via (mostly) US 44, I-495 (around Boston) and US 1. Cumulative tow miles: 38. Cumulative truck miles: 874.

Outside of the 3 GTW hops that were made to get the RV to/from the repair shop in San Jose (28, 31 and 19 miles, respectively), this was our shortest hop ever. It only took about an hour over roads we have traveled before, so there were no sights to comment on. The only two noteworthy things about the trip were (1) the nasty Memorial Day traffic returning from Cape Cod on I-495 (we had about 8 miles of stop-and-go traffic) and (2) the jerk who pulled out in front of me as I was traveling at 67 mph on I-495 that had to brake hard to avoid. Idiot.

The NET (New England Tour, to remind the readers with short-term memory problems) is a bit different from our other journeys in that it is really a long-term stay but spread over multiple places. Because we are generally staying for a week or more at each stop and then traveling a relatively short distance to the next stop, the cumulative truck miles are going to be high. We started counting miles for the NET the moment the TTN ended, so this first hop includes all the miles that I drove the truck during the 24 days that we were in residence in Plymouth.

Campfire

Campfire

Our campsite (#66)

Our campsite (#66)

Our home campground in Plymouth was the Pinewood Lodge Campground. Our memories of this campground will be forever tainted by the horrible weather that we had there – measurable rain on probably 18 of the 24 days. And cold. Very cold. Some days were more than 20 degrees below normal. We used a lot of propane keeping warm. Huddling in the RV while a hard cold rain drenched us was not how we envisioned spending May in Massachusetts.

Our first resolution for 2018: don’t come north until Memorial Day. We have asked ourselves, many times, why we left sunny and warm Florida to come north to the cold rain. We have looked at the weather map longingly many times over the past month, wishing we were basking in the 90-plus heat of southwest Florida.

Despite the rain, our impressions of Pinewood Lodge were mostly favorable. We felt at home there and, given an opportunity, will return in the future.

Things we liked about the campground:

Beach

Beach

  • The site (#66). It was large, level and wooded, with a nice campfire ring (that we actually used!). Very quiet. Nice neighbors.
  • The lake and the beach. Not that we could use them, given the weather, but I can easily imagine that they would be great in the summer.
  • The lodge/activity hall. There were games for the kids (which probably kept some parents sane in the wet weather) and a full bar for the adults (which also may have helped).
  • The location. Being just 10 minutes from downtown Plymouth and 15 minutes from my brother’s Duxbury home was great for our purposes.  And I really liked Plymouth.

As always, there were things we didn’t like, too:

  • It is very expensive. I think the 3 Memorial Weekend days may have been the most expensive ever – over $100 per night.  That is due to a high base rate, compounded by a pet fee of $10 per night.  And when we had visitors we had to pay a “day use fee” of $10 per visitor.  I love my brother and his family, but that tested the depth of my love.
  • The sites are covered with pine schmutz that got into everything. We put down our outdoor carpet, but that quickly got covered, too.  We had to sweep out the RV every day. And remove the pine tar from my shoes.
  • Other than the beach there are few recreational facilities.  No tennis courts, no pickle ball courts, no cornhole court.  There are some horseshoe pits and boat rentals.  And the kiddie playground is adequate.
  • No dog park.
  • No recycling
  • Almost no laundry facilities. There were a small number (4?) of beat-up washers in a lean-to connected to a bathhouse.
  • The bathhouses (which we didn’t use) were basic (e.g., screen doors with vinyl curtains on the showers).

But, overall, not bad.  I would rate it as a 7 on a 10 scale.

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